It’s The Good Advice – You Just Didn’t Get*

Day 7 National Health Blog Post Month.

 

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Chose a Bonus Prompt again today. Advice for Newly Diagnosed patients.

February 2007 – Sugarboy was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes

What was said (yes these things were said)What I wish was said

It isn’t that hardIt ridiculously hard

It will get easierIt will never get easier, you will get better

At least it’s only diabetesDiabetes sucks ass 

He shouldn’t go back to school (mothers day out)Get him back to what he knows

He should avoid sweetsHe can eat everything anyone else can eat

Diabetes is a brittle disease – He can do everything anyone else can

Other things I wish someone shared with me:

  • There are online communities of other parents and people with diabetes that will help keep you sane.
  • Start teaching him right away how to care for himself – independence builds strength. (not suggesting someone give syringes to a 2-year-old – only suggesting involving every child in the decision-making process – how many carbs are in that? Oh you’re high, what should we do about that? You want to go ride your bike, what should we do first? etc.)
  • Take care of yourself too – you can’t take care of your child if you end up sobbing uncontrollably in the fetal position on your floor. Take time for your friends, exercise, eat healthy, find others to chat with about D and NOT about D.
  • Start a blog – it’s easy and it doesn’t have to be about getting noticed – it can be about clearing your head. A journal works too if you don’t want to put everything out in cyberspace. Keeping anger, frustration, and sadness bottled up can kill you slowly.
  • Read diabetes blogs – not all will speak to you but there are countless blogs out there to choose from.
  • Get plugged into Twitter and the Diabetes Online Community. Search #diabetes #DOC and #DSMA to get connected with others in the D community.
  • Try to avoid becoming the sole diabetes care provider in your own home. Involve your spouse so you have a partner from the beginning. (not suggesting my dear husband isn’t a partner in care for our kids D – but I’m a bit of a control freak so he let me take the reins and I didn’t share all that I had to do – I got burned out and then breakdowns happen)
  • Attend diabetes conferences if possible. It is a great way to meet other people with diabetes or parents of children with diabetes.
  • Send your child with diabetes and if possible his/her siblings to diabetes camps. Being different is difficult and thus being at a camp (day or overnight) surrounded by others just like them does amazing things for their self-esteem and understanding.
  • Don’t berate yourself too often or too much. Mistakes happen, meal boluses are occasionally missed, we occasionally sleep through 3am alarms, A1C’s fluctuate (hormones be damned), it’s ok to be sad, angry, frustrated and tired sometimes.
  • Find laughter within the madness when you can.

So there you have it – my list of “I wish people had told me”. It’s taken me nearly 6 years to get here and I’m not done learning yet.

 

About Christina

Mom of 3 kids, all 3 have Type 1 diabetes - I blog to share stories. I am not a medical professional and my thoughts are my own. Please do not make changes to your medical care plan based on my stories - always consult your medical team. Hope you find something in my ramblings helpful and or amusing. You can find me on twitter @momof3T1s and on my Facebook page Stick With It Sugar. May all your dreams forever be bolus worthy.
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One Response to It’s The Good Advice – You Just Didn’t Get*

  1. Debra says:

    I love this post! I remember being told “well it’s only diabetes” to which replied “I almost died, it’s not just diabetes”.
    I love that saying “it doesn’t get easier, you just get better”.
    And yes, DIABETES SUCKS!!!

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